The nanny-family relationship can be one of the most rewarding aspects of childcare; offering deep connections, mutual trust, and a sense of shared purpose. But what happens when things don’t go as planned? When tensions rise, boundaries blur, or leaving a role becomes more complicated than expected?
In Episode 6 of “Playdate”, The Nanny X Family Dynamic Pt. 2, hosts Layla and Rée continue their deep dive into the realities of working so closely with families. If you haven’t listened to Part 1 yet, catch up before reading on!
This episode focuses on Layla’s personal experience of navigating a nanny-family relationship whilst leaving a nanny position, and the unexpected chaos that followed. Her story sheds light on the challenges of resigning from a role and how to protect yourself (both professionally and emotionally) when a transition doesn’t go smoothly.
Recognising When It’s Time to Leave
Not every nanny job is meant to last forever, and recognising when it’s time to move on is a crucial skill. Layla and Rée discuss key red flags that indicate it might be time to consider a change, including:
Lack of respect for your professional boundaries or working hours.
Unclear expectations or a shifting job role beyond what was agreed upon.
Emotional strain, where work begins to affect your mental and physical well-being.
Toxic work environments, where communication breaks down and tension escalates.
Layla shares how she came to the difficult decision to resign from her nanny role, believing it would be a straightforward transition; only to be met with unexpected challenges.
Navigating Nanny-Family Relationships: Leaving a Nanny Role - The Aftermath
In an ideal world, leaving a job would be a smooth, professional process. But as Layla’s experience shows, things don’t always go to plan.
Her resignation led to a series of events she never anticipated, including emotional fallout, strained relationships, and difficult conversations. She and Rée reflect on how nannies can prepare for and manage the aftermath of leaving a position, including:
Providing proper notice and following professional etiquette.
Keeping communication professional and avoiding unnecessary conflict.
Being prepared for emotional reactions from both parents and children.
Documenting important details in case of disputes over pay, notice periods, or contract terms.
Layla’s experience is a reminder that even when you try to leave on good terms, reactions can be unpredictable, and that’s not always a reflection of you, but rather the emotions and circumstances of the family involved.
Protecting Your Peace as a Nanny
One of the most powerful takeaways from this episode is the importance of prioritising your well-being. Working in a private home means professional and personal lines can blur, making it even more essential to:
Trust your instincts - if something feels wrong, it probably is.
Lean on your support network - whether that’s other nannies, mentors, or trusted friends.
Know your rights - understanding employment laws and contracts can protect you from unfair treatment.
Give yourself time to reflect - not every role will be the perfect fit, and that’s okay.
Layla and Rée encourage nannies to focus on their needs, not just the families they care for. At the end of the day, a happy, respected, and well-supported nanny provides the best care possible.
Listen to the Full Episode
For the full conversation and Layla’s personal story, tune into The Nanny X Family Dynamic Pt. 2 on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.
And if you’ve ever had a challenging experience with leaving a nanny job, we’d love to hear from you! DM us on Instagram @pronannies or email us at playdate@pro-nannies.com.
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